Wednesday, December 23, 2009

First Snow

We are up in Utah for a few weeks and it started snowing yesterday. I was sooo giddy I'm sure my in-laws think I'm nuts....but I LOVE the snow! So wintery and Christmasy! Here's the kid's reactions.For my family - doesn't he look JUST like me in that above picture! I love it!
This is probably the first post-pregnancy picture I've liked of me. And the kid doesn't look too bad either! MERRY CHRISTMAS!!

Friday, November 13, 2009

Pictures of My Baby

Stephen and I went to IKEA to buy a pan for my mother. IV was our carpet tester.

Love this expression!He can sit all by himself!

This was from the first day that we were in Arizona. Happy is feeding IV and LOVING it!
Here's Happy and SuperBoy (my nephews) with IV. They are the cutest ever! Happy was soo excited to feed IV! Then SuperBoy chimed in, "Aww Happy, you are a GREAT big brother!" Where do these kids get there cuteness from!?

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Singing Praises about my Husband

So my husband is a pretty awesome guy. He is going to school right now full time and helping at home also full time (he just painted the trim on my parent's house all by himself!). Anyway, at school he is doing sooo much to be involved. I'm just amazed by him!

Stephen is pretty vocal about things he knows work on campus and he will surely tell if he sees something that can be improved upon.

Recently he was asked by the dean to be on a board that figures out the curriculum for his Master's Program. He is the only student on this board primarily composed of tenured professors and the college administration. I am so impressed that they value his opinion so much as to invite him to be on this board!

Yesterday he came home from a meeting and was just grinning because he had made a big suggestion and now it's part of the curriculum!

I'm so amazed, especially to see all this coming from a guy who thought that he could never even go to college. To see him succeed this well is very encouraging.

Friday, November 6, 2009

Halloween

These pictures of my son are from my sister's camera.
We had a family halloween party and IV was adorable!
As you can tell, he wasn't always so happy. But he is still cute even through the tears!
The whole party just tuckered him out. He slept through all the noise and even having people take pictures of him using their flash. What a little trooper!


Wednesday, October 28, 2009

I miss Texas

I highly doubted that I would ever feel this way but it's true. I miss Texas, and I even miss Wichita Falls.
I miss the house that we were renting.
I miss driving fifteen minutes to some rural city.
I miss discovering all the fun things to do around Wichita Falls.
I miss our ward.
I miss our friends.
I miss the weather.
I miss the closeness, when people would ask if I lived nearby I would always reply "YES!" because I can guarantee you could drive anywhere in that city in under thirty minutes. Probably even less.
I miss the hills.
I miss the cuteness of the city. Sure not all of it was cute, but some parts were.

Like the littlest skyscraper. Yep, my beloved Wichita Falls is known for this beauty.
There's some lore surrounding this building but basically, somehow the blueprint was for a tall skyscraper and this skinny four-story building was built instead. I got this image from here. Really, you should go check that website out.

I miss having to drive to Oklahoma City or Dallas/Fort Worth when we wanted to buy certain items (namely computer parts).
I miss the tree-lined streets where we lived.
I wish I had checked out all the fun places I wanted to when we lived there. I was always too busy and pushed it off for another day. Maybe one day we'll go back and visit. Ooh, I can't wait!

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Cupcakes

I've always wanted to try my hand at cake decorating and for my birthday this year Stephen bought me a ton of cake decorating supplies. My niece's birthday came up recently and it was themed a "Movie-Star" Party so I knew these would be a hit. I made funfetti cupcakes with gold wrappers, then I tinted some cream cheese frosting red (which took FOREVER!) Then I rolled out some fondant and cut different shaped stars out of it. Lemon extract and gold shimmer powder were mixed together to create a paint which was then painted onto the stars.
It was so much fun! I can't wait 'til the next birthday party!


Oh yeah, don't ask about the pie incident. I'm better off buying some things from the store ;)

Thursday, September 24, 2009

Food - Day 4

My son. Never did I think that so many people would be interested in how I feed my son. But apparently this is everyone's business.

After my son was born I tried to nurse him. And nurse him I did. For a total of seven weeks. Seven looong weeks. Seven miserable weeks. After many tears and sleepless nights I slowly switched to formula. It was the best thing that I ever did.

You could see a change in him immediately. He no longer cried incessantly. He started gaining weight. He was no longer forlorn and miserable. My mother even noticed the drastic changed and was thrilled with his progress.

I wrote a post about this when it happened. We just coincidentally had taken pictures of him that day. Looking at them now I just cry. It's heartbreaking to see him then and to know that I wasn't feeding him enough. He looked so sad and was way too skinny.

I realize to many this won't seem interesting or important, but once I became a mother everything changed. I so wanted to nurse him, and for the first two weeks it was wonderful. Then I started to dry up. I know now that what I did was and is the best for him.

It is still hard to hear from other people about how I should have nursed him. How I should have tried harder, how I shouldn't have just given up like that. But I didn't give up. I gave him what he needed.
Now we're coming to a new playing field with new obstacles. He's five months old now. No I haven't started him on solids and I don't plan on it for a little while longer. He is doing JUST fine on formula alone. He sure doesn't weigh too little(he's got the cutest little fat rolls!) and he is incredibly tall...like in the 95% or above for his age. I plan on waiting longer than most and will be very careful when I do give him food and hopefully he will have less food allergies because of it.

My nephew and I aren't the only two who have food allergies in my family. So does my sister, brother and others too. Plus, apparently where we live gives us a greater likelihood for having allergies. Who would have thought?

I do NOT want my son to have food allergies. If there is anything that I can do now to prohibit or limit his chances for it later on I most certainly will. I realize this isn't the case for most people and I realize they don't even have to think about this, but I do. Again, I am going against what most people believe is the way to go. But it's my road to choose and I have multiple people to think about.

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Food - Day 3


My nephew. I have this nephew who's adorable. Well really that could be any of them. But today we're talking about Happy (his internet pseudo-name from his mom).

Happy is three years old and has EE. To really read more about him and find out all of the specifics as well as to see more pictures of the seriously cute and adorable child he is click here. Basically he has multiple food allergies. For him his list of foods he can eat is much shorter than the foods he cannot. I believe we're up to 6... sugar, watermelon, sweet potatoes, grapes, apples, and celery. (really, to see him eat celery is amazing! He eats it like a corn on the cob-straight across length-wise. ADORABLE!!!)

Can you imagine only eating off of that list? And at 3? It blows my mind. Every meal time is a struggle. Because those six foods don't sustain him he has to take a specialized formula. You can drink it directly but from what we hear, it's pretty gross. So he used to drink it through a tube in his nose (an ng tube).

While it made him actually get the nutrients and allowed him to grow it really made things hard for him. People can be rude and seeing this tube coming out of his nose led to many unusual comments. So they chose to get a g-tube for him. The g-tube goes directly from the outside of his abdomen into his stomach. His parents didn't just decide to do this because of the strange (read: rude) comments from people, but now he can also swim and do anything that other kids can.

Still, everything isn't perfect. Getting the tube plugged in just right can be tricky. I know, I've tried it before. We have babysat him a few times and getting him plugged in or unplugged always makes me nervous. What if I pull too hard and it comes out? What if I don't do it correctly and somehow mess it up big time? What if I indirectly hurt him? I hate to be putting him in pain.
And don't even get me started on the pump. Or really I should say don't even get his parents started on talking about the pump. It can be quite finicky. Yuck! Not only are his parents dealing with his allergies and still trying to lead a normal life, they have to deal with coordinating hospitals, doctors, and insurance!
Judging from their experience and my own I can attest to how frustrating it can be to try and deal with the medical profession. There are instances where we really need their help and input and yet it seems like we are talking to the wall for all the good it does us. Often times we feel left out and on our own trying to deal with the issues at hand.
But I have to say that I am so grateful for all the medical knowledge that we have today. Hearing from my sister about all the success cases for children with EE I am just so relieved that we do know what we can do for them. I am grateful for Happy's formula which enables him to thrive, even if a month's worth costs more than most people's monthly mortgage payment.

I love Happy soo much and I just wish the EE would go away. That just seems to be the only answer I've got, which really isn't an answer. But it doesn't work like that and so we just have to keep muddling through.

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Food - Day 2

Since this is my blog and all, I'm going to be vain and talk about myself. Actually, it makes more sense to start with me and my issues with food.

I have many many many allergies. Some of them are odd. Ok, most of them are odd. To me allergies are just as normal as say...breathing. I just assumed that everyone had their share. Imagine my dismay when I learned that not everyone has allergies. It was enlightening to say the least.

Among my many allergies which include dust, pollen, animals, and some medication, I am also allergic to food. It's been really hard to figure out exactly what foods I am allergic to. The earliest ones I can remember discovering were cashews (from my sister's soccer games) and then vegetables like snowpeas, cucumbers, and green sweet peppers. Now this list has grown to include many more, however there are certain peculiarities when it comes to my exact allergies.

Vegetables. I can eat them cooked, but if they're raw, I have to watch out. I can have a few pieces of raw vegetables if I eat them plain, more if they are in something like a salad or with a dip.

The same thing goes for fruit. Not all fruit though. But then that's how it started out with the vegetables. For example, my husband and I have learned that a strawberry shake is fine but a strawberry-banana shake is out of the question.

The hard part is that my allergies change all the time. I never completely rule out a food because years later I may be able to have it again. On the same hand sometimes I can be eating something to suddenly discover that I'm now allergic to it. That's fun.

Throughout all of this I have dealt with pretty bad stomach and intestine issues. It will randomly strike leaving me disabled. Luckily for me this usually happened at night leaving me awake for many hours or on the weekend where I never had to miss school because of this.

We thought this might be nervous induced as I would get sicker when something big was happening, like for the start of the school year, or if a big project was due. And no, I never caused this myself. We wondered if I might be lactose-intolerant because I would have cereal in the mornings and I would get sick before school.

Then I started high school. Starting early morning seminary was wonderful! I'm not sure exactly why, but when I was in high school I didn't get sick at all. I thought I had just grown out of it.

Next came college. Second semester it came back but with a vengeance. Most mornings I would wake up ill and then would throw-up. I went to the school doctors but really, that was a joke. After being asked millions of times if I was pregnant (certainly not! I was not married and on my period) or if I had issues with my weight (again, nope! if anything I knew I needed to GAIN weight!). It was sooo aggravating. And they basically had no idea. But they gave me more allergy medications and some heartburn medication too.

Then I got married. And it continued. I saw (or talked to) an intuitive healer who told me my stomach didn't produce the right kinds of acids. So now I am supposed to take acidophilus and hydrochloric acid. No joke. I'm not a medicine type of person. I HATE having things that I have to take, especially when I'm not sure that they really do anything.

More than anything I wish all of it would just stop. Then I got pregnant and everything changed. I definitely had morning sickness that lasted almost the entire pregnancy but I didn't have any environmental allergies. Now I'm not pregnant but am just waiting for my body to get back to normal and see what else is in store.

Monday, September 21, 2009

Theme of the Week - Food

So I think it is about time that this blog contain other than pictures of the baby. While he's cute and all our family has more going on than that. One of my favorite things about reading blogs is hearing about what others are going through and how they are able to muddle along. Nothing is ever easy for everyone all the time and that's nice to remember.

For this week I'm going to be talking about food and how it is directly relating to our family right now.

I know what you're probably thinking...food?? What's the big deal about food?

Well for us food (and eating) is actually quite the deal. It is amazing to me how something so seemingly simple and requisite can become so challenging.

I remember early on in our marriage (we're talking like two years ago...so FOREVER long ago ;))
how nervous I would get before preparing dinner. I would think about it almost all day long and fret over what I was going to make and how I was going to make it. I know, my worries are always legit. I don't think Stephen's ever not liked something I made, although there are a few dishes I don't ever want him to cook again. (enchiladas with sugar; I don't understand and I choose not to ask).

Anyway, if we could please just go back to then I would be grateful to not have the food woes we currently experience.

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Pictures of the Babe

Ooh, my baby boy is so much fun! He just started babbling and we're lovin' it! Although now everyone in our household can be heard echoing back the high pitched squeals. Cute from a baby, not so cute from anyone else. haha.

Here's one of my favorite picture of my Stephen's. That'll teach Dad to give him a kiss!
Now for a good picture of the two of them.

So, he's just over five months old and can't sit up yet, but he LOVES to be sitting with the help of others. I just love his little smile and laugh! He sure is excited over something!

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

My First Tutorial!!

So, today is my first time posting on my sister's craft blog. I was going to be a regular blogger on there, but I just don't have the time or the creativity. Go here to view it.

Post Edit: This was not my first post, but it was my first tutorial. Are you happy now Anjeanette? :)

Friday, August 28, 2009

Drive to Tucson

It seems as though my posts are only ever about driving! Well, it's what we do most days now I guess. My hubby went to Utah for a camping trip one week this summer and I went down with my sister and her family to visit my brother's family in Tucson.
Here's my sister's two boys and their bear. They were sooo excited for me to take a picture of the bear. This was taken in Oregon but somehow got uploaded here. I LOVE this license plate holder, I think when we saw this car we were actually listening to Car Talk...oh how I love NPR.
(And in case you can't read it: "I'm not laughing at you, I'm listening to Car Talk from NPR" classic!)
Here's my baby boy!! See...his head now reaches up to the patterned part of the car seat! I was taking pictures of the people in the mini van. First Super Boy (on the right) decided to stick his head out, then Happy (not wanting to be out-done by his brother) joined in and lastly my sister is waving for the camera so we know she's there too.




Thursday, August 27, 2009

Portland

We went to Oregon to visit Stephen's dad's family and while we were there they agreed to watch our son for the afternoon so we could go visit Portland.
The day we were there just happened to be the annual Chinese Dragon Boat Races and we accidentally managed to watch it in action!
Here's some of the coast of Portland. I wouldn't mind living here.
And of course here's proof that we were there.
I couldn't choose just one picture of us to post so because I'm so vain I decided to post them both.
Some random road we were walking over that I thought was just gorgeous.
Right across from the ballet (that's where Stephen took me on this surprise outing) was this water exhibit that apparently is talked about often among planners.

Drive to Oregon

Sorry for the out of order pictures, blogger is driving me bonkers tonight.

This was part of the end of our eight-state journey that lasted almost a month. And we drove with a little baby. After driving from Texas, through New Mexico to Arizona, stopping the next night in Las Vegas, going on to Utah for a two-week stay to then head through Idaho and towards Oregon we got exhausted and decided to cut short our stay and head home.

The drive to Oregon was very interesting. I had never been to Northern Utah, Idaho, or Oregon so this was quite the adventure for me. The only pictures I have though are of Oregon.

This picture is as we were almost to Portland. I LOVED the fog! Oregon was so lush and wet and green.

This was taken on the eastern side of Oregon. We followed the Columbia River which is the border between Washington and Oregon.
This is looking towards Washington, there were these crazy steep and dangerous looking cliffs and then there were vineyards just right in the middle of them.
Here's our son on the journey. It's neat to see how much he's grown and changed, his head didn't even touch the patterned part of the top of the car seat and now he's almost too long for it!
Making some cute faces.

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

The Many Faces of a Sleeping Babe

It often seems as though the only time I can get a decent picture of my son is when he's alseep. Otherwise he's just too blurry from moving around so much. He moves WAY more than any of the other babies in my family, which is why I've aptly given him the name of "Squirmy-Wormy."
Here he is taking a nap in his bouncer (Thanks Daniel & Crystal - I had no idea how great these are!) On this day he decided it would be fun to try and get out of the bouncer...well at least a leg and a hand made it overboard!The leg that needs to be rescued.His whole sleeping self. I LOVE holding him while he sleeps and having him just cuddle up to you...that's probably my favorite thing right now.And here he is during his afternoon nap. This child always has his arms out, he was never a fan of swaddling. Except that one time I couldn't get him to sleep for the life of me and someone else swaddled him and he went right to sleep. I've tried it since and it's NEVER worked again. So weird.
He loves to sleep with a blanket and he used to snuggle his face right into it so I started using the afgans my mother made for him 'cause there's holes in them so I feel like he can breathe easier. Thank goodness those days are over!
I can't believe how big he's getting!!

Saturday, July 18, 2009

Date Night

While in UT, Stephen's mom treated us to a date night! We left IV with her (along with Daniel and Crystal's two) and headed off to Liberty Park with Daniel, Crystal and Matt. It would have been a triple date but unfortunately Matt's wife was unable to join us.
Luckily for us Crystal had two grocery bags full of bread that was too stale to eat, so we fed it to the hungry ducks instead. The ducks were not afraid of us at all and came right up to us which really scared me at first.
I wish we had more parks like this in AZ!

We managed to find a bench right on the water although the water was so stinky you really didn't want to be that close.
This is Limpy.
When we first showed up the ducks were scattered across the lake, but as soon as we started throwing our copious amounts of bread into the water the ducks flocked right to us. There were so many ducks in such a small space that sometimes they had to fight it out to get the pieces of food. Limpy was the result of such commotion. After the fight he limped the rest of the night and I resorted to hand-delivering him my pieces of bread. Such an epic tale for so meager a creature.
These guys were the crowd-pleasers. Who doesn't love a baby duck?
The ducks were super friendly (I almost typed frisky!) and would eat right out of our hands.
Matt was the adventurous one and tried feeding the duck right out of his mouth. Can you say GROSS?!I certainly wasn't brave enough to try that!

We all had so much fun. This probably lasted over an hour until we realized we were stealing all the ducks away from the little kids who came with their parents. We gave the rest of our bread to them so they could enjoy in the fun.